In today’s society, Fun is often opposed to Performance: if we have fun, it means that we are not serious, not focused, not committed, and therefore we can’t perform.
But the truth is Fun can be in service of Performance, not instead.
Fun helps get rid of unproductive pressure and makes us more relaxed, which, combined with commitment and focus, enables to perform better.
Fun fosters creativity and possibilities.
When we have fun, we are more authentic, more human, less focused on “performing”, leading to more real relationships.
Having fun also helps enjoy the journey, therefore increasing the probability to reach the destination. Each time I catch myself thinking “when X will happen, then I will be happy”, I switch my thinking to “what can I enjoy now ?” or “how can I make this fun?”
And Fun helps put things into perspective which is essential for our wellbeing and mental health.
Sport offers a lot of examples of athletes who performed thanks to prioritizing fun:
– I remember a swimmer I coached years ago who was in a slump. We worked on bringing back the fun at the forefront, forgetting about the results. This completely changed his experience, and counter intuitively, he started performing again.
– In 2018, Simona Halep won her first Gran Slam in Roland Garros after 3 lost finals and shared after the match that she went into the final smiling and enjoying, seeing it as a chance, not a potential new tragedy. “I couldn’t have won without smiling”, she said, ensuring she was able to have fun during the game, even though it was a tough one during which she was down 6-3, 2-0 at some point.
– In 2021, Olympic Champion Florent Manaudou, who was frustrated about not swimming fast enough during his preparation for the Tokyo Olympics, eventually focused on bringing the fun back instead of having his happiness rely on his results. In the final training weeks and during the Olympics, he decided to focus on “pure pleasure”. He ended up with a silver medal around the neck.
Fun looks different to everyone. Since I was a child, my motto has always been to “Be serious without taking myself too seriously” and I believe it enables me to bring the right mix of energies, of commitment and letting go, of head and heart, of performance and fun.
Juggling is the perfect integration of play and fun on one hand, and performance on the other hand. That’s why I have created an experiential learning workshop where I teach juggling and use the metaphor to coach teams on what they need to develop to increase their individual and collective performance. The fun helps break the ice and everyone to open up, which allows for some pretty serious and deep work to be done (if you are curious, read more here).
How much fun do you have in your business, in your sport, in your life ?
How can you bring more of it, not instead, but in service of your goals ?
Take care